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A decision made (By Jonathan Lai)
Posted 23/06/10
After 16 weeks of not drinking which included three months in New York I have made the decision to stop my Hello Sunday Morning. My head, heart, and gut have been at war with one another and in a very analytical and reflective state on my progress to date the decision to end this challenge. Upon reflection I believe this experience has taught me a few key points which are: 1. I can do all alcohol friendly activities without drinking and feel entirely comfortable about it 2. I understand my relationships with alcohol; the harmful and the positive and appreciate these relationships 3. I prefer to be in control and a sharp state of mind 4. Drinking can be bloody expensive! The key moment when I felt it was time and where HSM did not serve me any more was two Sundays ago when I was at a family dinner. My dad opened a bottle of ten year old wine and offered me a glass. It seemed like half an hour before I responded because my head was madly balancing the pros and the cons and deciding whether or not to accept his offer. I declined. That was the moment where I knew to call it a day. I had my first drink last Thursday. The occasion - celebrating with my brother Simon. The drink - scotch, neat. The sensation - crazy. My taste buds went wild. Moving on I will still be contributing to this blog through the eyes of a post-HSMer and will tracking my progress of reintegration. I feel humbled to be part of this movement and have huge respect for Chris and the team. I am open to answer any questions you may have so please comment below if you do!
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  • Amilia
    23/06/10

    Good on you Jono for sticking it out, especially in New York. I’d want to share a glass of ten-year old wine with my dad too.

  • Twist
    24/06/10

    Proud of your effort jono, well done.

  • ckraine
    25/06/10

    I definitely think you got what you came to do man. Congratulations.

    How did you find drinking again? Did you notice it the day after?

  • Jaimee
    25/06/10

    Good job, Great post!

  • Jono_Lai
    25/06/10

    I went out last night and a had a few drinks and boy did I feel it today. The hangover is always the worse part of drinking. Which includes missing out on a day of awesomeness if you’re not feeling the best!

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