
There is an episode in South Park called ‘The List’ that I thought was a very interesting insight into the way we are about popularity and beauty and our failure to recognise the fleeting temperament of both. In the episode, a list of the best to the ugliest looking people is created and put out to the student population. I remember that an identical list was created at my school (that’s high school by the way!) so I found the concept explored on South Park to be quite fascinating.
The funny thing is, that although these types of lists are always self-serving to the person/people that create them, we seem to believe them on some level for some reason. (Note: in the episode, the ballot was rigged by the girls so that Craig would win in order for it to be acceptable for the girls to go out with him and ultimately get free shoes from Craig’s dad who owned the local shoe store). Our desire for social inclusion is so often led by the arbitrary whims of others. Kind of like a peacock’s feathers or fashion or mainstream media.
The episode has a cameo by Abraham Lincoln who talks about how being ugly helps build character and resilience over time, which beautiful people don’t have when their looks fade. It is this thought that makes me think about an interview I did with a Sydney record label owner – Martin Novosel earlier in my HSM. He talked about how the successful people he knew (musicians, artists and the like) were nearly all outcasts at school because they invested all their energy into their purpose, not the social hierarchy that surrounded them.
I see the same thing happen when I go out now. It’s the exception that I want to stay out for long at all. By the very nature of my life, I simply don’t go out (in the massive way I used to) that much anymore. I used to invest my weekends (my 10,000 hrs) into making the top of the party list but I just don’t have the time or energy to invest into that list anymore. I’ve found other lists that I feel are more rewarding, more challenging and only have one person on them. ME!
I guess the further you are at the bottom of one list, the higher you get on another.
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